UNBOTHERED

   So I've been thinking for a while, maybe I've been here before. If you put me besides another 20 year old, we're most likely walking different paths. In high school I tested the waters a bit with the whole "dating' scene. Personally I don't believe that exists in this generation but whatever. (I'll discuss this further later) But when I turned 19, things began to change for me. I like to call it an awakening of some sort. I started to think about my family I'll have and how every decision I make will in some way affect them. It's true I'll always have friends, I'm highly approachable, but no one will ever be able to replace my husband or my children. They are who I do everything for even though we have yet to cross paths. So when it came to values, I sat down and evaluated everyone around me. Many people had to go. It may have hurt, but life is all about getting rid of relationships that no longer serve you and making way for the ones that do. So I've began to surround myself with people who are where I'd like to be someday and what a difference it has made on my personal growth. My main goal is to improve every year. I don't want to be 30 stuck in my 20 year old ways. So I've began to take my finances very seriously. Well everyone else my age are out shopping, getting mani-pedis, eyebrows, concert tickets, partying, I'm home. I'm doing homework, working, and saving. I'm so content. Probably because I know I'll have my time. So while everyone else is one day worrying about how they'll pay off their mortgage or go on that vacation, I'll be UNBOTHERED.